Grief Is an Elephant - Hardcover
A lyrical and comforting exploration of grief for children and adults
Grief is an Elephant by Tamara Ellis Smith, illustrated by Nancy Whitesides, is an imaginative and heartfelt book that reminds readers there is no loss without love. Through lyrical storytelling and gentle, evocative illustrations, the book helps children—and adults—understand how grief transforms over time.
Grief is first as large as an elephant, leaving little room for anything else. Over time, it becomes smaller—a deer, a fox, a mouse, and finally a flickering firefly guiding us along a path of loving remembrance. This poetic journey offers comfort, reassurance, and hope for anyone experiencing loss, whether it be of a loved one, a pet, or a change in their surroundings or community.
Designed to support children’s emotional understanding, Grief is an Elephant is both a soothing companion and a resource for caregivers, teachers, and parents navigating conversations about grief and feelings of sadness.
Author Biography
Tamara Ellis Smith earned her MFA in Writing for Children and Young Adults from the Vermont College of Fine Arts. She lives in Richmond, Vermont, with her family.
Nancy Whitesides is an author and self-taught illustrator born and raised in the Philippines. She currently resides in California.
Features
- Gentle and empathetic exploration of grief for children (3 - 8) and adults
- Illustrates how grief transforms over time, from large to small, guiding readers to healing
- Provides reassurance and hope, making difficult emotions feel less frightening
- Open-ended narrative suitable for all types of loss, not limited to death
- Beautifully illustrated, appealing to children, families, and adults alike
- Resource for parents, caregivers, teachers, social workers, and librarians
Product Details
- Author: Tamara Ellis Smith
- Illustrator: Nancy Whitesides
- Format: Paperback, illustrated
- Pages: 36
- Dimensions: 0.3 × 9.1 × 9.1 in
- Publication Date: October 24, 2023
- Suitable for children, families, and educators navigating grief
- Ideal as a gift or classroom read-aloud
Help children understand grief, find comfort, and embrace hope.
✨ Guide your family through loss with Grief is an Elephant today.
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